“You want to approach her and actually make her reply?”

Then I have some valuable tips for you that you can INSTANTLY put to action and get results with.

When you have reached the end of this letter, you will already know more about flirting online than 95% of all the guys on Facebook and MySpace.

What determines whether a girl reacts to your email or not?

That you are "her type"? That you look like a model in your photos? Or that she likes the criteria in your profile - that you don't live too far away, not to close nearby, that you have the right height, the same hobbies, listen to the same kind of music, have your own apartment, and the right zodiac sign as well?

The truth is: NOT A SINGLE ONE OF THESE THINGS MATTERS!

She doesn't know you.

She doesn't know whether you are "her type" or not. She probably isn't even sure about what "her type" is anyway.

And she WON'T EVEN LOOK AT YOUR PROFILE if your first email doesn't make her curious.

A lot of guys don't want to hear that. The reason is simple: If you don't get a reply to your email, it's easy to say to oneself, "I'm probably just not her type." This is a comforting excuse. It allows you to avoid the admission that - like anything else in life - flirting is something that you need to practice in order to get results.

Now, let me make something clear: Of course you should be yourself. But does this mean you're not allowed to learn new strategies and gain more experience? You have done so with handwriting, riding a bike or cooking spaghetti. And yet you are still "yourself." You've only activated your potential - and in the end, that is what makes you who you are.

What do most guys intuitively do when they approach an attractive girl online?

Exactly: They try to be extra nice.

They make compliments ("Your eyes are sooo beautiful, I could drown in them!"). They show interest in her feelings ("How are you? How was your weekend?") - even though they don't know her at all. And they harp on the tiniest things that they happen to have in common with her ("You like CSI? I also watch that series sometimes!").

And they mean it. They don't think of themselves as trying to manipulate her into liking them. At least not consciously. In fact, I believe such words will cross the minds of most of us when we see a stunningly attractive girl.

However, that is exactly why this kind of approach is probably not going to work.

A girl on Facebook or MySpace is probably receiving ten or more emails from guys who want to get to know her. And that's just the average looking girl. If she has an attractive photo on her profile she will get twice as many with every single login!

Just imagine how it must be for her to log in to her account and be approached by five, six new guys within the first five minutes. Just think about that and you'll understand: You've got to give her a reason not to click your message away like 90% of her inbox!

As a guy you probably think of your message as particularly inventive. After all, you're just being yourself and you're not using any "pickup lines." However, this looks very different from the receiver's perspective. In her view, all those messages that seem so intuitive and creative to the sender look as similar as two peas in a pod.

In short: What looks intuitively right and honest and creative to you will look clumsy, needy and dull to her.

So that means for you:

You can either say to her what seems intuitively right to you - or you can say what works.

If you want her to reply your first email will have only one single goal:

It needs to get her ATTENTION.

You want her to read your message and think to herself: "Oh my god. What kind of guy is that? Now I'm really a bit curious..."

Don't bore her with the stuff she's reading over and over again from all the other guys.

No matter how hot she might look to you - don't just give her a compliment. Don't tell her how beautiful her eyes look to you. And don't tell her how stunned you are by her appearance. She gets that all the time. It will have NO EFFECT WHATSOEVER.

It's okay that you're interested in her, but don't tell her that explicitly. Think about it: You have send her an email even though you don't know her at all. So she KNOWS you're interested. The very fact that you approach her is enough of an indicator of interest. And if you still go on talking about how interested you are you'll end up looking NEEDY instead of just playful and curious.

Flirting is a bit like negotiating a car deal: If you leave no doubt to the seller that you desperately NEED that car and that you HAVE TO buy it under all circumstances right from the beginning, you don't even need to attempt to get a better price. He knows you're not willing to turn around and go looking somewhere else. He doesn't have to make any concessions to you.

It's the same in flirting. Once you have made it clear to the girl beyond a shadow of a doubt that you want her SHE WILL LOSE ATTRACTION. All curiosity that she might have had for you will burst like a soap bubble. What tension, what excitement is there in catching a fish that's already on your hook?

Challenge her a bit in your first email. Be playful.

Phrase your messages a little ambiguous. Make her guess how you mean it. Or surprise her with something she didn't expect.

For example, start out with an usual compliment - but then add a little twist in the opposite direction.

You want an illustration? Here's one:

"What a sweet picture. Who is she? I really like your taste."

Or:

"Your picture is so cute! :) But I don't know...maybe you'd be more interesting if you put up something more sassy. Maybe a photo that lets a bit of your dark side shine through."

Show her that you're more observant than those other guys who are all blinded by her beauty.

Let her see your knowledge of human nature. Just view her profile. Look at her photos. I bet you WILL have some kind of first impression about her instantly. You'll get a hunch about her character - shy, sassy, outgoing, etc. About how she's probably spending her time - party girl, bookworm, family girl. Or about how she lives. If she's an only child. If she did horseback riding as a child, and so on.

It doesn't matter if your first impression is right or not. Just put it into words and let her react.

Here's an example:

"You look like a good girl... But in truth I bet you're a rascal. One can see that at first sight! :)"

She reminds you of some celebrity or actress? Then tell her!

Example:

"Your picture just got me a bit confused. That big smile of yours somehow reminds me of good old Julia Roberts..."

But be careful: This is supposed to be a clever observation - not a clumsy compliment. So something like "Wow, you look as hot as Angelina Jolie!" is NOT what we're talking about here...

“Let me show you how to make any woman you like on MySpace or Facebook curious about you.”

... you don't have to be a natural-born womanizer, you don't have to be rich and you don't have to look like Brad Pitt.

Just yesterday I had an email in my inbox. It was from K. - a 19-year old model originally from Bulgaria. I had seen her on TV a few weeks ago. She had won a contest in Munich, and because I thought she was cute, I just emailed her on Facebook.

She didn't reply to my first email. But I kept persisting in a funny, playful way. And guess what: It took no more than a week until we were sending messages back and forth on a daily basis. And every single message from her contains at least two smileys! :-)

She has sent me photos from her daily life. In fact, she has taken those photos just for me - because I was curious about what her life looked like.

And in her email from yesterday she asked me if I'd like to go on vacation with her this summer!

If you had asked me five years ago if I considered something like THAT possible I would have said: "This is bullshit! There's no way an average guy like me could ever do this."

It wouldn't even have occurred to me that I could make some hot model curious about a normal guy like me. Especially not this easily...

I thought such a girl has tons of options. She can have any guy she wants - and there are probably hundreds of guys that are so much more interesting than me...

Well, that was at least what I believed back then.

At that time, when I would send an email to a cute girl on Facebook or MySpace, I wouldn't receive any reply 9 times out of 10. It was a pure game of chance to me. And even if I was lucky to did get an answer I wouldn't know how to keep the conversation going.

Whenever I saw a beautiful girl I felt like I desperately wanted to have a connection to her. I wanted to get to know her and to talk to her. But I actually had no idea what to actually talk ABOUT.

In any conversation with a cute girl my thoughts always revolved around one single thing: "What do I say next to keep her interested?"

In any conversation with a girl my thoughts were always revolving around one single thing: “What should I say next to keep her interested?”

I didn't enjoy the conversation with her, but only the fact that she was still replying!

And it was even worse:

Not only did I not know what to say to her, I also had no idea what would actually be my goal and where I wanted to go! I was way too occupied with doing everything I could to keep the conversation going. For me this was like rowing against a stream: I knew that if I only said ONE SINGLE THING WRONG it would be OVER.

Guys that always get positive reactions from girls, and for whom a conversation would just be flowing in a totally natural way without any effort, simply must have something that I don't have. That was my belief.

Then, four years ago, I ran into a totally cute and sweet girl at my university. It took me months to find a way to talk to her. In fact, I had played that situation over and over again in my mind, but whenever I saw her I came up with all kinds of excuses: "Too many people around." "Oh, she's busy right now." "Oh, I don't really know what to say. This would be awkward. I better just watch how beautiful she is and wait for something magical to happen." Of course the real reason was that my knees were trembling...

Even though I didn't know her at all I felt so connected to that girl I could have MARRIED her instantly.

Finally, in the library she happened to drop a stack of books right next to my table. It took that much luck to make me say to myself: "Okay. This is as good as it can get. This is your chance. Now GO!" And she really liked me. She always smiled brightly at me when she saw me, and we really had some kind of natural vibe going on.

We wrote text messages in the evenings and sometimes we talked on the phone for hours. One Sunday she even came to my house for lunch. Another time we were having a picnic in the park, and she was smiling and brushing back her hair... but I just didn't manage to make the next step! And guess what, a few weeks later her interest had faded and she wouldn't have time to talk to me and didn't answer my text messages anymore.

That was the moment I knew I had to change something.

I started to study books. I researched on the internet. I talked to and learned from other guys who seemed able to date any girl they ever liked. And I went out to clubs and approached girls by myself. And especially on dating websites on the internet I tried nearly anything: I not only tested what kind of approach messages would get a reply from women or what topics would make them open up, I also set up a girl's profile myself to see how our typical male approach messages would look on the receiver's end.

Today I know: For women there are just two categories of men. There are men that they feel attracted to. And there is the rest.

The great thing about this: Whether you are in the second category or in the first one, nothing is inborn. Being good with women is not in your genes or in your looks. Most of us just have to relearn it.

What does this mean for you?

It means this:

You already have everything you need to put beautiful girls under your spell.

And social websites like MySpace or Facebook are the ideal place for you to rediscover your potential.

Life is too short to watch the most admirable women hook up with other guys just because they happened to attend the same school, grow up in the same neighborhood or share some common friends.

You are lucky to belong to the first generation of men in the history of the world who are no longer dependent on such coincidences. Today you have the possibility to select, meet and bring into your life almost any girl in the world. And you can do that without being some playboy, bodybuilder or pickup artist.

To get instant results, all you need are some simple principles and techniques that you can immediately put into action.

You have already learned a great deal on this website. Now it's your turn: Go and see how it works for you!

Just do yourself one favor: Don't just copy and paste. Try to change a few words. Adapt the examples to fit the situation and your own personal style. Not only will this boost your results. It will also give you the confidence of knowing that it's not just the line that is successful but you as a person.

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You want women to become curious when they see your profile? To eagerly await YOUR next message while clicking away the dozens of emails from other guys?

You want your conversations with women to naturally flow and just be fun for her and for you? And you want to know how to transition your new acquaintance from the online world to the phone and then into your LIFE?

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I wish you all the best of success!

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